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Prayer Requests / Re: School issues
« Last post by Oldiesmann on March 28, 2013, 7:48:39 PM »
Well, I finally have some good news to report with this.

After weeks of silence, he finally replied to my latest email I sent yesterday (prior to one that I sent last night saying that I had essentially given up).

He said he's sent an email asking to have me added back into the class and is waiting for someone to add me back on Blackboard (the online course-management system for those who haven't been in college in a while :P).

He also said that he's going to give me an extra 4 weeks to get the final project done and will give me an incomplete until then - which basically gives me more time to do it than I would have had if he'd added me back to the course when I originally asked him to (or if I hadn't been dropped in the first place).

He never did say why he hasn't responded to my emails after all this time (maybe it was the final "I'm not happy with this situation and don't appreciate the way I've been treated" message that did it?), but at least it looks like I'm going to be able to continue.

That will give me the summer term to focus on getting a co-op job, and hopefully I can be done by this time next year.
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Prayer Requests / Re: School issues
« Last post by jb4travel on March 28, 2013, 11:13:28 AM »
Praying for you and all the issues you mentioned. Hang in there!

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Prayer Requests / School issues
« Last post by Oldiesmann on March 28, 2013, 4:00:25 AM »
I need some prayer relating to school.

I have been somewhat struggling with school throughout the 10  years or so I've been in college, but have been slowly making progress towards a degree despite that.

This term I was taking what was supposed to be the final course for my degree - meaning that all I had left to do was co-op (which frankly I should have done a long time ago) and possibly take a few easy courses to get my GPA up.

The first assignment for this course was a research paper, which I didn't do both due to not having a lot of free time to do it (I work 30 hours a week) and because I don't like doing research papers to begin with.

I did do the second assignment but turned it in about a week late (which, according to the syllabus, we can do without penalty) because I had a bad cold the week it was due and didn't feel like doing anything the two days I was off that week.

I then skipped the third assignment and jumped into the midterm in order to avoid getting behind (past experience has been that if I get behind, I never manage to catch up).

A week or two into the midterm, I logged into the course online to take another look at the assignment details (he didn't give them to us as a word document - just posted them online), only to find that the system said I was no longer enrolled in the course.

I emailed the professor and he said he marked me as a "no show" because he didn't receive any emails or assignments from me during the first two weeks of the term (even though I did respond to two emails he asked us to respond to during the first week of the term).

I managed to get him to email me the assignment details so I could continue working on the midterm - figuring I'd have enough time to figure out how to dispute/undo the "no show" status after I got that done.

Towards the end of the midterm assignment period, I slacked off a bit because I was upset with the course situation. Right before it was due, I emailed my adviser to find out what I could do about disputing the status. Although he said emails didn't really matter, I was told that it was up to the professor to reverse the status. I emailed the professor asking if I could get back into the course (and also basically saying in an annoyed fashion that there wasn't any point in me finishing the midterm if I wasn't going to be added back into the course). He said I just had to let him know if I wanted to stay in the course, and he had some paperwork or something to fill out to get that straightened out. I indicated that I did, and got the midterm uploaded to the student webserver (this is a programming class) a few days later. Immediately after that I emailed him again asking if I needed to email him a zip file with all the code as well.

Three weeks and 5 emails later, I still have not heard back from him. As this is an online course and he's an adjunct professor, there are no office hours, and he does not have his phone number printed on the syllabus.

I have just sent the prof one more email, with high importance and requesting a read receipt (which in reality may not do me any good anyway since the recipient of the email can decline to send a read receipt) basically saying I'm extremely disappointed in the way the situation was handled and I have given up all hope of completing the class at this point.

Now comes the hard part. Due to the fact that I have a lot of bills, my parents pay for most of my tuition and I chip in whatever I can afford. Because of this, I am now faced with explaining to my parents that they essentially threw away $600+ for a course I won't be getting any credit for. In order to buy time while I attempted to get things worked out, I simply told my parents I got a B on the midterm and that I'm doing fine in the course. I've pretended to do homework all the while I'm really sitting on Facebook, web-surfing, etc. the entire time.

I am  really upset about this - more so than I have been in the past when I've been unable to pass the class, because I thought I actually made an effort to not get behind this time, only to have it backfire on me anyway.

At this point I'm really at a loss as to why I'm even taking courses in school. I'm learning a lot, but it's been almost 12 years since I graduated high school and started college, and I still don't have a degree. Part of this is due to switching from going full time for the first 4 or 5 years to going part time and holding down a job so I can earn money to pay bills, but part of it is due to struggling - I get behind and never manage to get caught up. I don't know if it's my ADD or something else.

Specific things I need prayer about:
1. Do I really continue in school or do I just try to find a better-paying job and revisit the school thing later on when I have money to pay for it myself?
2. That my parents would be understanding about the situation and not be too upset about the $600+ they've thrown away.
3. That I actually get somewhere with co-op this term. I tried to do it this past term but got sidetracked with getting my resume updated/fixed due to trying not to get behind in this course.
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Prayer Requests / Re: Pastor's passing
« Last post by Kiwifruit on March 25, 2013, 8:53:58 PM »
Thanks, you two.  :)
The visitation was today. We went early, and we're leaving again in a few minutes to help with the clean-up & set-up for the funeral tomorrow.
As horrible as the circumstances are, it is really amazing seeing our church put this all together. Saturday was a cleaning day, and we cleared out the storage room in the basement (eventually it will be the fellowship hall), scraped the floors, washed the floors, painted the walls, and cleaned the entire church, top to bottom! The other girls on my cleaning team and I cleaned Sunday after church, then we'll be cleaning again tonight and Wednesday.
They are expecting 500 people at the luncheon tomorrow, but a full 700 for the service.

Ohhh dear.
I'm not seeing the "why" in all this, and I know the "why" is not always apparent, but couldn't it be this time?!  :P
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Prayer Requests / Re: Pastor's passing
« Last post by jb4travel on March 22, 2013, 1:17:57 PM »
Praying here, too.
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Prayer Requests / "break my heart"
« Last post by kate on March 22, 2013, 1:13:53 PM »
"i've longend for a vision,you've heard my prayers for wisdom, and you've heard me ask for strength"

guys.....you all know that i consider you all my true family because of my story.... i really need you all to pray that God would grant me wisdom and a vision, and that God will revel his plan to me..... about 3 weeks ago someone on fb contacted me (never should have found me on fb to start w/ due to my privacy settings) asking if i was "jr tillman's daughter" and saying that if i was they wanted to get in contact with me because that side of my family is having a family reunion for the 1st time in almost 20 years. after i got over the shock, i fb'd my older sister since i had no idea if this person was family or not, my sister said yes they were, but asked me to not give her info out. the following day i contacted this person (they gave me a phone number and email address) and this person was crying and saying things that kind of show me they aren't operating on the whole story (said how nice of my mother to have LET me attend my dad's graveside service. i told this person that mom actually had to beg my sister and brother for me to have that privilage, and i also reminded them that my mother and grandparents had been forced to sit in the car during that time) those kind of things. the family reunion will be on june 15th (3 days before what would be my dad's b-day) in auburndale,fl....i told this person that i'd get back to them on weather or not i would be going. while i know i've forgiven them for abandoning me and blaming me for my father's sins, it seems different now that i'm having to deal w/ them in real life. part of me wants to go, and the other part wants to tell them to kiss my white rearend. i've been looking at flight/hotel/ rental car stuff online for the last few weeks but the best tha's coming up is 400 plus bucks round trip w/ flights leaving at not a good time (if i could get a flight out of nashville in the evening, i could work fri the 14th, get into orlando late on the 14th, do the reunion on the 15th, visit my big brother on the 16th at the prision [8 am til 3 pm], get another late flight out of orlando on the 16th, and be at work on the 17th)....my ex boyfriend, who i'm still friends w/ has agreed to accompany me to the reunion for moral support and has offered to help pay for me to come(not agreeing to that) and has again opened his couch and car for me but i'd rather get a hotel w/ a rental car due to our past (getting that feeling again that he's relizing what he lost when we broke up 6 yrs ago and wants more than just friends)........right now the $ is not there and w/ granny having had a stroke sunday night/ early monday morning and w/ the knowledge that aunt wilda has had hospice brought in i know that i may end up w/ a call saying i need to be in la on short notice.....i'm so confused and that's not a normal feeling for me. i just don't know what to do.
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Prayer Requests / Re: Pastor's passing
« Last post by kate on March 22, 2013, 12:50:33 PM »
got ya covered, and the personel commity
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bologna anyone? / Re: Random thoughts
« Last post by jb4travel on March 21, 2013, 1:08:17 PM »
I don't check in on here everyday, but I still check in periodically. A lot of us are facebook friends so that's one way some of us are keeping up. Maybe we can convince one of the guys to do a chat on here once in awhile. I do miss seeing new posts here. And I have to believe that the guys will still perform at a festival or two in the future so we can see them somewhere. But they do need their family time.
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Prayer Requests / Re: Pastor's passing
« Last post by Kiwifruit on March 21, 2013, 12:00:07 AM »
Hey,
For anyone who reads this, just wanted to let you know that we received word shortly after my last post that Pastor John went to be with his Lord and Savior about an hour prior to my posting.
He was quoting scripture and encouraging his family right up until the end, as only he could do. He was quite concerned that they continue to be firm in their faith, and not be bitter over his passing, so please pray for his family and our church.
thanks.
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Prayer Requests / Pastor's passing
« Last post by Kiwifruit on March 20, 2013, 6:19:46 PM »
Hey guys,
Last February, my pastor was diagnosed with cancer. It was a scary few months, but between chemo and surgeries, he survived and was declared cancer-free. His family moved back their 'clan' vacation so he could go, too, after his last round of chemo. They went up to Door County, WI every year, and he was so happy to be able to go for what's turning out to be his last time.
About 2 months ago he developed a nasty cough that he couldn't shake, so they ran tests and determined it was nothing but a cold virus.
He was under the weather enough two Sundays ago that our associate pastor preached in his stead. Last week, Pastor John was admitted to the hospital because he couldn't stop coughing, and they diagnosed it as pulmonary hypertension--his heart is working too hard--and suggested his family from out of state fly in.
Yesterday they did a biopsy and the cause of this is cancerous. Since he is so ill, they've decided to forgo further treatment.

This is really rough on him, his family, and the church. Please keep us in your prayers in the coming days and weeks.
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